The Sacrament of
Marriage - Essential
Elements of the Wedding Ceremony
Time
- Weddings can take place Monday to Saturday at a time
agreed between you and the priest. However, we do ask
that your wedding begins at the arranged time. Before
the ceremony begins it is good for the bride to allow at
least fifteen minutes at the church doors if photographs are
to be taken.
Ceremony
- There are a variety of prayers, scripture readings and
essential elements in the Marriage Ceremony which the priest
will discuss with you. If you intend to have a
booklet, the priest will also be happy to proof read it
before it goes to print. You might like to involve
relatives or friends in readings or prayers. Such
participants should be competent and properly prepared.
Family or friends may also be involved in the carrying of
the gifts at the Offertory. The priest will try and
arrange with you a suitable time for a rehearsal. If
you would like altar servers to assist at the ceremony,
please inform the priest so he can arrange these.
Signing of the Civil Register takes place after the wedding
ceremony in the Sacristy, or another suitable place.
The schedule is never signed on the altar as this is
separate from the sacrament.
Music
- Please remember that only hymns and sacred music are
suitable for the church.
It is never appropriate for secular songs or music to be
played as part of the sacred liturgy.
The church organ and microphones are available for use by
musicians and soloists. We ask that tapes/CD’s are not
used during the ceremony. The priest will be happy to
recommend a wide variety of musicians and hymns.
Flowers
- Floral decorations should always be done with moderation
and placed around the altar rather than on it. If you
would like to leave some flowers to decorate the sanctuary
for Mass, it would be very much
appreciated. We would ask that people refrain from
throwing confetti in the church or its grounds.
Photography
-
You are welcome to have photography and/or a video of your
wedding ceremony. We ask that this is done in such a
way that does not distract from or intrude in the
celebration of the sacrament. It is desirable that the
videographer remains in one place during the ceremony.
Those involved should speak to the priest before the
ceremony begins.
Cost
- The Church asks only that a couple be properly prepared
and committed. However, if you wish you can make an
offering to the church. No fee is charged for the use
of the church by parishioners. It is customary however
to make an offering to the celebrant and a gratuity to the
sacristan and altar-servers.
In preparing the ceremony we ask that you respect the
traditions of the Church. Please do not
be offended if you are told that something you would like is
not suitable for a church celebration.
After the Wedding - If you
plan to make your home and begin your married life in the
Parish, we look forward to seeing you in the future.
You will be part of a well established Parish community and
we hope you find it a warm place to be.